Dore Impamvu zitandukanye zituma abantu bakuvuga cyane
Ese wari wagera mu gihe abantu bakuvuga kandi ibyo bakuvugaho ibihuha, bagakora uko bashoboye ngo abandi bantu bizereko ibyo bakuvugaho ari ukuri? Ndakeka warigeze kugera mu gihe nk’icyo.
Ariko se wowe ko bakuvugaho amakuru agusebya kandi Atariyo? Ni iyihe mpamvu yaba ituma abantu bagenda bakuvugaho amakuru atariyo aho utuye, aho ukorera ndetse n’ahandi henshi hafite aho hahuriye nawe?
Impamvu zituma abantu bakuvuga cyane nizo ikinyamakuru Elcrema cyandika ku mibanire y’abantu cyegeranyije ari nazo tugiye kukugezaho.
1.Baba bagira ngo bahabwe ijambo n’umwanya
Inshuro nyinshi abantu bavuga ibihuha baba bashaka guhabwa umwanya n’ijambo imbere y’abo babibwira. Ibyo bituma bahimba inkuru babwira umuntu umwe cyangwa itsinda ry’abantu, ari nayo mpamvu nawe ushobora kubigenderamo, bakakuvugaho inkuru zitarizo.
2.Bashimishwa no kubona ubabaye
Hari abantu bashimishwa no kubona abandi bababaye. Hari abantu mu mitekerereze yabo bashimishwa no gutesha abandi agaciro, bakamusubiza inyuma, bakamusebya ndetse bakangiza umunezero wawe.
3. Niko baremye
Hari abantu mu mitekerereze yabo bakunda kuvuga ibihuha n’inkuru mpimbano. Bakaba babayeho bakunda kubeshya no kuvuga ibintu bitari byo kuri bagenzi babo. Akenshi usanga ari ingeso bakuranye kuva mu bwana, bakabaho bashaka kwangiza isura ya bagenzi babo babavugaho ibinyoma.
4. Baba bashaka kwica icyizere wifitemo
Hari abantu bakuvugaho inkuru mpimbano kugira ngo bakwangirize icyizere wifitemo, babone uko bazamura icyabo. Ntibaba bashakako ugumana icyizere wifitiye cyo gutera imbere ndetse n’ubushake ufite bwo gukomeza gutera intambwe ugana imbere.
5. Kukwangiriza isura
Ishyari, kwikunda n’ubugugu bishobora gutuma abantu bakuvugaho ibihuha kugira ngo bangize isura yawe imbere y’umuntu umwe cyangwa itsinda ry’abantu.
6.Kukubera igisitaza
Dufashe urugero rwo mu kazi ukora. Kuba ukora neza kandi abakoresha bawe bakwishimira bakanakuzamura mu ntera, hari abo bidashimisha. Kukuvugaho ibihuha ni kimwe mubyo bifashisha ngo bakwangishe abakoresha bawe,abandi bakozi mukorana. Abantu benshi bagiye birukanwa ku kazi bitewe n’ibihuha byabavuzweho kandi barengana.
Nagirango nsoze mbashishikariza kwirinda kumva ibihuha ndetse n’inkuru zisebya abandi, kandi mujye mubanza mushishoze mubyo mukora byose, mwirinda guharabika abandi ndetse no kubasebya.
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